Ms. Jean

My elderly parents have moved in with my family mostly because my mother needed help to care for my father who has early to mid Alzheimer's.

He refuses to shower and a bath is out of the question. He gets enraged at the suggestion and refuses no matter how we try to convince him.

He has had 1 shower since Memorial Day weekend and is obviously in dire need. He is physically able and my mother is willing to help him, but he will not cooperate.