My older sister is 80 and was recently in the hospital for dehydration in the elderly. She was vomiting everything, including water for almost a week.
She was in the hospital for 2 and a half days. She has had heart & lung surgery in the past, but tests were taken and we were told everything is fine.
She is back home, but very weak and tired. Her husband wants to put her in a nursing home because he feels she is not getting any better. She has not thrown up in the past 2 days, but she is still weak and very tired.
How long should she be like this? Should my brother in law be expecting her to be up and moving by now?
REPLY from Caring-for-Aging-Parents.com
Dehydration in the elderly is serious. Your sister was not able to eat or drink for over a week. Even for someone half her age it would take at least a few weeks to fully recover.
Given that your sister is 80 years old, it could easily take weeks and even a couple months before she is fully recovered.
I would not rush to move her into a nursing home. It's too early to know how she will recover.
In the meantime, her and your focus should be on getting her better and preventing her from falling (which can often occur when people are weak and tired). For more information, Fall Prevention in the Elderly.
She may benefit from some safety equipment (walker, wheelchair, bathroom equipment, etc), home support services (assistance with personal care, meal prep, shopping, etc), follow up with her family doctor and possibly rehabilitation services (physical and occupational therapy).
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