Severe Dehydration in the Elderly

by Carmen
(Florida)

My mother just passed away. I feel like it was because of dehydration in the elderly but doctors were saying she had a stroke and her symptoms were unexplainable.


Weird... because I still feel like she had all the signs of severe dehydration.

You see, my mother was in the process of getting dentures and was eating baby food for a year.

Her frame was getting smaller and smaller. Even though the nurses were saying it was medication, it seems like she just wasn't getting enough foot and fluids.

I feel like the doctors and elderly caregivers didn't do a good enough job. I wish I knew more so that I could have helped her more.

I guess, in the end, children of aging parents need to take care and ask questions about there parents care.

Don't always assume they are being well taken care of. I would suggest starting with researching symptoms on the internet.

Does anyone else have any suggestions?

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Jun 09, 2026
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I hope your mother is hydrated NEW
by: Jeremy Jardinel

Trust your instincts, because you knew your mother better than any doctor or caregiver in that building. Family members need to be active advocates for their elderly loved ones, asking hard questions and not accepting vague answers like "it's just the medication." Watch for warning signs like noticeable weight loss, reduced eating or drinking, unusual fatigue, and confusion, and bring them up loudly and consistently with medical staff. If something feels off, request a nutritionist consult and ask specifically what your parent's daily food and fluid intake looks like. Document everything you observe, because having a record gives you a stronger voice when pushing for better care. Your reminder that we shouldn't assume elderly parents are being well taken care of is so important, so stay involved, stay curious, and keep researching.

I got my references here:
https://hopebridge.care/summer-safety-for-seniors-what-families-can-do/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Management_of_dehydration
https://www.aarp.org/health/conditions-treatments/dehydration-in-older-people/

Mar 18, 2012
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Aging parents care
by: Anonymous

I appreciate your thought about starting researching on the internet. I always find this helpful but also follow up with our doctor who we have a good relationship with. Also, the pharmacist who give us the pills for my mom suggested bringing all her pills in once a year so he can review them for med interactions. Thanks for sharing your story.

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